Mnyamata wokonzeka bwanji adawonekera, palibe nthawi yoti avule mathalauza ake, ndipo pali kale tambala wodzaza. Chabwino atsikana achichepere ndithudi ndi okongola, oterowo ndipo amafunika kukokedwa mozama. Momwemonso, kugonana kwanthawi zonse sikunali kokwanira ndipo achinyamata adaganiza zokulitsa mabulu awo ndikugonana kumatako.
Kugonana kwachibale kokongola. Ndizosangalatsa kuwonera pamene banja laubwenzi likuchita zosangalatsa zakugonana, mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi amaphunzira ndikupeza chidziwitso chamtengo wapatali m'moyo wakugonana. Mayi wokhwima pano, nawonso, amaphunzitsa ndikuwonetsa momwe angachitire zoyenera kuti akhutitsidwe kwambiri. Koma kamwanako akanametedwa kuti awone bwino kuchuluka kwa umuna womwe mwanayo wathira.